After several years of being engaged, we are getting ready to get married after all. our relationship is very caring and supportive, but sex hasn't been a turn on for a long time. however, i have noticed that he has been watching my secret sex tapes. i recorded it when we were on a break in our relationship. these recordings showed me having passionate and rough sex with another man, much rougher than we usually have together. we got back from our date and i inform him that i had a surprise. of course, he immediately thought i wanted to have boring sex with him, but not this time. he walks into the bedroom and sees.... my lover from those tapes on the tapes. i ask him to sit down in the chair, and inform him that i know about him videoing our sex tapes. and i also know that he is very turned on by watching me have sex with another man. so i got him a special wedding present. watching me have sex with another man, not on tape.