I’ve got some tough news for you—honestly, i’m not even sure i should say it. but i have a feeling you already know what i’m about to tell you. you’ve been ignoring it, pushing it down, hoping your reality wasn’t what it clearly is. you’ve been wishing things were different. wishing she was satisfied with you—just as you are. wishing your girlfriend saw you as enough, despite the fact that you can’t fully satisfy her. that maybe, just maybe, a “great personality” would make up for the rest. but did you ever stop to consider that there are men out there who have both? that being a decent guy doesn’t automatically make you the best choice? you’ve been acting like there’s no competition. like your girlfriend doesn’t realize she could do better. but let’s be honest: she’s stunning—and way out of your league. i’ve seen her. you must know that deep down.